結婚了是否？ Are you married?

華沙的可愛櫥窗擺設
Warsaw's lovely window display

與青年旅館的人聊天
Chatting with the hostel people
除了問名字和來自的國家之外
In addition to asking their name and country
問我的內容一定有：
They must have asked me :



1.妳結婚了嗎？
  Have you married?
2.在妳家鄉有幾個小孩？
  How many children in your hometown?
3.妳幾歲？
  How old are you?

完全跳過妳有沒有男朋友的問題
Totaly skipping this problem :do you have a boyfriend?
是因為我看起來真的很老嗎？？（深受打擊）
Because I look really old ? ? (By the strike)

在住過的青年旅館中
In these hostels I stayed 
認識的波蘭人只有櫃臺人員
I only know the Poles that is counter staff
來這裡住的人幾乎都是外國人
People who live here are almost foreigners
有土耳其、杜拜、印度、越南、拉脫維亞、烏克蘭等
There are Turkey, Dubai, India, Vietnam, Latvia, Ukraine and so on
最多是烏克蘭人
Most Ukrainians

他們都希望在波蘭找到好工作
They all want to find a good job in Poland
或在波蘭認識另一半
Or have a Polish partner(lover)
好擁有長達3年的居留權
that they can have the right of abode for three years

不過根據我對華沙的觀察
However, according to my observation of Warsaw
波蘭法律對外國人盯滿緊的
Polish law is quite tight for foreigners
櫃臺的Nik說：
Nik counter, he said:
在波蘭結婚，警察會觀察你兩年
Married in Poland, the police will observe you for two years
時不時就會敲門確認婚姻狀況
They will knock on the door from time to time to confirm your marital status
而且第三年必須有小孩!!
And must have children in the third year !!
以證明不是假結婚
To prove that the marriage is not a sham
也太嚴格了＠＠
It's so strict@@

這對生不出小孩的家庭不就太雪上加霜了？
This is too much worse for no kids family?
為了留在波蘭
In order to stay in Poland
結婚和小孩成了籌碼
Marriage and children became a bargaining chip

反觀結婚最原本的期待
The most original expectations of marriage
難道不是誓言與對方白頭偕老嗎？
Is not the oath with each other to grow old?
為了某些目的而結婚
For certain purposes to get married
太複雜
Too complicated
太哀傷了
Too sad


不過以台灣目前的現況
But the current status of Taiwan
結婚和小孩最大的問題在於經濟
Major problems is the economy of childern and marriage
結婚後賺錢將成為永無止境的輪迴
After the marriage ,make money will be a never-ending cycle
也因此台灣漸漸零生育率
Taiwan's fertility rate has thus gradually to zero

在我看來應該是領先全球
In my opinion it should be the global leader
成為滅絕人類的先鋒
Become extinct human Pioneer
最後是否能破解輪迴？
Finally, whether it can break the cycle of life?
是否能看破人生？
Can you see through life?
是否還需要結婚？
Do you still need to get married?

這個理想是否正確？
Is this ideal correct?
讓我們繼續看下去......
Let us read on ......